By Maxim | 28 January 2019 | 0 Comments
Why More People are Becoming Interested In BDSM?
What is BDSM?
BDSM refers to the discipline and training of human sexual behavior. Specifically: the B and D refer to bondage and discipline, and S and M to sadism and masochism. BDSM is conducted on the premise that the participants agree with each other, and its purpose is to make each other happy. Because of this, BDSM and sexual abuse are two very different things.
What's the advantages (both sexual and psychological) of BDSM ?
Some find it can add a bit of fun to an otherwise routine roll in the hay and get people talking about what they enjoy sexually.For other it has deeper advantages. For example, some feel that it helps them relax, or that it enables them to get over difficult times in their life.
Does BDSM has some Security Measures?
Medical kits, especially those for hemostasis and disinfection, should be prepared prior to the start of the event, and any contact or puncture of the skin should be strictly disinfected to avoid infection. Abusers should also take a bath in advance.A safety measure is a word, a sentence, or an action that is spoken or made when the victim cannot bear the pain. A safety word appears and the abuser suspends the activity to prevent an accident.
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What are some popular misunderstand in BDSM?
BDSM is dangerous?
As with everything there can be risks so it is important that people know what they are doing both physically and psychologically. But somebody think, BDSM might be dangerous or psychologically disturbed in some way. The evidence actually shows that there is no basis to this stereotype and that people into BDSM are no more likely than anybody else to be criminal or abusive or to suffer from mental illness. And many people are unaware of the playful, consciousness-expanding, and even healing opportunities that BDSM offers.
The BDSM community actually prides itself on physical and emotional safety. Consent and an in-depth discussion of boundaries and physical safety are the absolute hallmarks of BDSM. People in the community use a couple of acronyms to emphasize what good BDSM is: SSC, or Safe, Sane, and Consensual, and RACK, or Risk-Aware Consensual Kink. If you're new to BDSM, or exploring it for the first time with a new partner, it's absolutely necessary to discuss what you want, what you don't want, how you will communicate "slow down" or "stop" in the heat of the moment, and how you will do "aftercare" to process it all later. It's especially important when watching or reading fictional depictions of BDSM to understand that consent marks the unambiguous boundary between erotic play and non-consensual abuse. And for this reason, it's not advisable to dive into BDSM with strangers!
BDSM is a unusual sex activity?
Surveys have always found high numbers of people to have fantasies about being tied up, spanked etc. Sex experts see an interest in BDSM all the time, and a 2014 study also suggests it isn't unusual. Over 65 percent of women polled fantasized about being dominated, 47 percent fantasized about dominating someone else, and 52 percent fantasized about being tied up. “It's a healthy fantasy to have and one that should be explored,” experts says.
The dominant person is always in charge?
Contrary to popular opinion, the dominant person doesn't really run the show. In a healthy scene, the submissive person is always the one in control because they have the safe word. Because a submissive is under someone else's control, they're more likely to need or want to use it.
If your partner is into BDSM, that's the only kind of sex you can have?
When you're new to BDSM but your partner isn't, you might feel like you need to just dive in. But you don't have to rush—people who are into BDSM can also like non-kinky sex, and it can take some time to work up to trying BDSM together. Unless you've been with your partner for a long time and you two are absolutely sure you're on the same page, it's always best to discuss exactly what you each want and don't want to happen, both before the scene happens and as it actually plays out.
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